[SPARK-35694][INFRA][FOLLOWUP] Increase the default JVM stack size of SBT/Maven

### What changes were proposed in this pull request?

In https://github.com/apache/spark/pull/32838, we set the default JVM stack size to 16M from 4M.
However, there are still stackoverflow error in builds:
https://amplab.cs.berkeley.edu/jenkins/job/SparkPullRequestBuilder/139672/console

Let's update the value to 64M

### Why are the changes needed?

Make test build stable.

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

No

### How was this patch tested?

Manual trigger test builds.

Closes #32879 from gengliangwang/increaseStackAgain.

Authored-by: Gengliang Wang <gengliang@apache.org>
Signed-off-by: Hyukjin Kwon <gurwls223@apache.org>

.github/workflows/build_and_test.yml

@@ -455,7 +455,7 @@ jobs:
         java-version: 11
     - name: Build with Maven
       run: |
-        export MAVEN_OPTS="-Xss16m -Xmx2g -XX:ReservedCodeCacheSize=1g -Dorg.slf4j.simpleLogger.defaultLogLevel=WARN"
+        export MAVEN_OPTS="-Xss64m -Xmx2g -XX:ReservedCodeCacheSize=1g -Dorg.slf4j.simpleLogger.defaultLogLevel=WARN"
         export MAVEN_CLI_OPTS="--no-transfer-progress"
         # It uses Maven's 'install' intentionally, see https://github.com/apache/spark/pull/26414.
         ./build/mvn $MAVEN_CLI_OPTS -DskipTests -Pyarn -Pmesos -Pkubernetes -Phive -Phive-thriftserver -Phadoop-cloud -Djava.version=11 install

build/sbt

@@ -53,7 +53,7 @@ realpath () {
 declare -r noshare_opts="-Dsbt.global.base=project/.sbtboot -Dsbt.boot.directory=project/.boot -Dsbt.ivy.home=project/.ivy"
 declare -r sbt_opts_file=".sbtopts"
 declare -r etc_sbt_opts_file="/etc/sbt/sbtopts"
-declare -r default_sbt_opts="-Xss16m"
+declare -r default_sbt_opts="-Xss64m"
 
 usage() {
  cat <<EOM

pom.xml

@@ -2602,7 +2602,7 @@
               <arg>-P:silencer:globalFilters=.*deprecated.*</arg>
             </args>
             <jvmArgs>
-              <jvmArg>-Xss16m</jvmArg>
+              <jvmArg>-Xss64m</jvmArg>
               <jvmArg>-Xms1024m</jvmArg>
               <jvmArg>-Xmx1024m</jvmArg>
               <jvmArg>-XX:ReservedCodeCacheSize=${CodeCacheSize}</jvmArg>