[SPARK-35134][BUILD][TESTS] Manually exclude redundant netty jars in SparkBuild.scala to avoid version conflicts in test

### What changes were proposed in this pull request?
The following logs will print  when Jenkins execute [PySpark pip packaging tests](https://amplab.cs.berkeley.edu/jenkins/job/SparkPullRequestBuilder/137500/console):

```
copying deps/jars/netty-all-4.1.51.Final.jar -> pyspark-3.2.0.dev0/deps/jars
copying deps/jars/netty-buffer-4.1.50.Final.jar -> pyspark-3.2.0.dev0/deps/jars
copying deps/jars/netty-codec-4.1.50.Final.jar -> pyspark-3.2.0.dev0/deps/jars
copying deps/jars/netty-common-4.1.50.Final.jar -> pyspark-3.2.0.dev0/deps/jars
copying deps/jars/netty-handler-4.1.50.Final.jar -> pyspark-3.2.0.dev0/deps/jars
copying deps/jars/netty-resolver-4.1.50.Final.jar -> pyspark-3.2.0.dev0/deps/jars
copying deps/jars/netty-transport-4.1.50.Final.jar -> pyspark-3.2.0.dev0/deps/jars
copying deps/jars/netty-transport-native-epoll-4.1.50.Final.jar -> pyspark-3.2.0.dev0/deps/jars
```

There will be 2 different versions of netty4 jars copied to the jars directory, but the `netty-xxx-4.1.50.Final.jar` not in maven `dependency:tree `, but spark only needs to rely on `netty-all-xxx.jar`.

So this pr try to add new `ExclusionRule`s  to `SparkBuild.scala` to exclude  unnecessary netty 4 dependencies.

### Why are the changes needed?
Make sure that only `netty-all-xxx.jar` is used in the test to avoid possible jar conflicts.

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
No.

### How was this patch tested?

- Pass the Jenkins or GitHub Action
- Check Jenkins log manually, there should be only

`copying deps/jars/netty-all-4.1.51.Final.jar -> pyspark-3.2.0.dev0/deps/jars`

and there should be no such logs as

```
copying deps/jars/netty-buffer-4.1.50.Final.jar -> pyspark-3.2.0.dev0/deps/jars
copying deps/jars/netty-codec-4.1.50.Final.jar -> pyspark-3.2.0.dev0/deps/jars
copying deps/jars/netty-common-4.1.50.Final.jar -> pyspark-3.2.0.dev0/deps/jars
copying deps/jars/netty-handler-4.1.50.Final.jar -> pyspark-3.2.0.dev0/deps/jars
copying deps/jars/netty-resolver-4.1.50.Final.jar -> pyspark-3.2.0.dev0/deps/jars
copying deps/jars/netty-transport-4.1.50.Final.jar -> pyspark-3.2.0.dev0/deps/jars
copying deps/jars/netty-transport-native-epoll-4.1.50.Final.jar -> pyspark-3.2.0.dev0/deps/jars
```

Closes #32230 from LuciferYang/SPARK-35134.

Authored-by: yangjie01 <yangjie01@baidu.com>
Signed-off-by: HyukjinKwon <gurwls223@apache.org>

project/SparkBuild.scala

@@ -689,7 +689,9 @@ object ExcludedDependencies {
     excludeDependencies ++= Seq(
       ExclusionRule(organization = "com.sun.jersey"),
       ExclusionRule("javax.servlet", "javax.servlet-api"),
-      ExclusionRule("javax.ws.rs", "jsr311-api"))
+      ExclusionRule("javax.ws.rs", "jsr311-api"),
+      ExclusionRule("io.netty", "netty-handler"),
+      ExclusionRule("io.netty", "netty-transport-native-epoll"))
   )
 }