[SPARK-35818][BUILD] Upgrade SBT to 1.5.4

### What changes were proposed in this pull request?

This PR aims to upgrade SBT to 1.5.4.

### Why are the changes needed?

SBT 1.5.4 is released 5 days ago.
- https://github.com/sbt/sbt/releases/tag/v1.5.4

This will bring the latest bug fixes like the following.

- Fixes BSP on ARM Macs by keeping JNI server socket to keep using JNI
- Fixes compiler ClassLoader list to use compilerJars.toList (For Scala 3, this drops support for 3.0.0-M2)
- Fixes undercompilation of package object causing "Symbol 'type X' is missing from the classpath"
- Fixes overcompilation with scalac -release flag
- Fixes build/exit notification not closing BSP channel
- Fixes POM file's Maven repository ID character restriction to match that of Maven

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

No.

### How was this patch tested?

Pass the CIs.

Closes #32966 from dongjoon-hyun/SPARK-35818.

Authored-by: Dongjoon Hyun <dongjoon@apache.org>
Signed-off-by: Dongjoon Hyun <dongjoon@apache.org>

project/build.properties

@@ -14,4 +14,4 @@
 # See the License for the specific language governing permissions and
 # limitations under the License.
 #
-sbt.version=1.5.3
+sbt.version=1.5.4