[SPARK-29923][SQL][TESTS] Set io.netty.tryReflectionSetAccessible for Arrow on JDK9+

### What changes were proposed in this pull request?

This PR aims to add `io.netty.tryReflectionSetAccessible=true` to the testing configuration for JDK11 because this is an officially documented requirement of Apache Arrow.

Apache Arrow community documented this requirement at `0.15.0` ([ARROW-6206](https://github.com/apache/arrow/pull/5078)).
> #### For java 9 or later, should set "-Dio.netty.tryReflectionSetAccessible=true".
> This fixes `java.lang.UnsupportedOperationException: sun.misc.Unsafe or java.nio.DirectByteBuffer.(long, int) not available`. thrown by netty.

### Why are the changes needed?

After ARROW-3191, Arrow Java library requires the property `io.netty.tryReflectionSetAccessible` to be set to true for JDK >= 9. After https://github.com/apache/spark/pull/26133, JDK11 Jenkins job seem to fail.

- https://amplab.cs.berkeley.edu/jenkins/view/Spark%20QA%20Test%20(Dashboard)/job/spark-master-test-maven-hadoop-3.2-jdk-11/676/
- https://amplab.cs.berkeley.edu/jenkins/view/Spark%20QA%20Test%20(Dashboard)/job/spark-master-test-maven-hadoop-3.2-jdk-11/677/
- https://amplab.cs.berkeley.edu/jenkins/view/Spark%20QA%20Test%20(Dashboard)/job/spark-master-test-maven-hadoop-3.2-jdk-11/678/

```scala
Previous exception in task:
sun.misc.Unsafe or java.nio.DirectByteBuffer.<init>(long, int) not available&#010;
io.netty.util.internal.PlatformDependent.directBuffer(PlatformDependent.java:473)&#010;
io.netty.buffer.NettyArrowBuf.getDirectBuffer(NettyArrowBuf.java:243)&#010;
io.netty.buffer.NettyArrowBuf.nioBuffer(NettyArrowBuf.java:233)&#010;
io.netty.buffer.ArrowBuf.nioBuffer(ArrowBuf.java:245)&#010;
org.apache.arrow.vector.ipc.message.ArrowRecordBatch.computeBodyLength(ArrowRecordBatch.java:222)&#010;
```

### Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

No.

### How was this patch tested?

Pass the Jenkins with JDK11.

Closes #26552 from dongjoon-hyun/SPARK-ARROW-JDK11.

Authored-by: Dongjoon Hyun <dhyun@apple.com>
Signed-off-by: Dongjoon Hyun <dhyun@apple.com>

R/run-tests.sh

@@ -23,7 +23,7 @@ FAILED=0
 LOGFILE=$FWDIR/unit-tests.out
 rm -f $LOGFILE
 
-SPARK_TESTING=1 NOT_CRAN=true $FWDIR/../bin/spark-submit --driver-java-options "-Dlog4j.configuration=file:$FWDIR/log4j.properties" --conf spark.hadoop.fs.defaultFS="file:///" $FWDIR/pkg/tests/run-all.R 2>&1 | tee -a $LOGFILE
+SPARK_TESTING=1 NOT_CRAN=true $FWDIR/../bin/spark-submit --driver-java-options "-Dlog4j.configuration=file:$FWDIR/log4j.properties" --conf spark.hadoop.fs.defaultFS="file:///" --conf spark.driver.extraJavaOptions="-Dio.netty.tryReflectionSetAccessible=true" --conf spark.executor.extraJavaOptions="-Dio.netty.tryReflectionSetAccessible=true" $FWDIR/pkg/tests/run-all.R 2>&1 | tee -a $LOGFILE
 FAILED=$((PIPESTATUS[0]||$FAILED))
 
 NUM_TEST_WARNING="$(grep -c -e 'Warnings ----------------' $LOGFILE)"

pom.xml

@@ -2326,7 +2326,7 @@
               <include>**/*Suite.java</include>
             </includes>
             <reportsDirectory>${project.build.directory}/surefire-reports</reportsDirectory>
-            <argLine>-ea -Xmx4g -Xss4m -XX:ReservedCodeCacheSize=${CodeCacheSize}</argLine>
+            <argLine>-ea -Xmx4g -Xss4m -XX:ReservedCodeCacheSize=${CodeCacheSize} -Dio.netty.tryReflectionSetAccessible=true</argLine>
             <environmentVariables>
               <!--
                 Setting SPARK_DIST_CLASSPATH is a simple way to make sure any child processes
@@ -2376,7 +2376,7 @@
             <reportsDirectory>${project.build.directory}/surefire-reports</reportsDirectory>
             <junitxml>.</junitxml>
             <filereports>SparkTestSuite.txt</filereports>
-            <argLine>-ea -Xmx4g -Xss4m -XX:ReservedCodeCacheSize=${CodeCacheSize}</argLine>
+            <argLine>-ea -Xmx4g -Xss4m -XX:ReservedCodeCacheSize=${CodeCacheSize} -Dio.netty.tryReflectionSetAccessible=true</argLine>
             <stderr/>
             <environmentVariables>
               <!--

project/SparkBuild.scala

@@ -978,6 +978,7 @@ object TestSettings {
     javaOptions in Test += "-Dspark.unsafe.exceptionOnMemoryLeak=true",
     javaOptions in Test += "-Dsun.io.serialization.extendedDebugInfo=false",
     javaOptions in Test += "-Dderby.system.durability=test",
+    javaOptions in Test += "-Dio.netty.tryReflectionSetAccessible=true",
     javaOptions in Test ++= System.getProperties.asScala.filter(_._1.startsWith("spark"))
       .map { case (k,v) => s"-D$k=$v" }.toSeq,
     javaOptions in Test += "-ea",

python/run-tests.py

@@ -86,9 +86,10 @@ def run_individual_python_test(target_dir, test_name, pyspark_python):
     env["TMPDIR"] = tmp_dir
 
     # Also override the JVM's temp directory by setting driver and executor options.
+    java_options = "-Djava.io.tmpdir={0} -Dio.netty.tryReflectionSetAccessible=true".format(tmp_dir)
     spark_args = [
-        "--conf", "spark.driver.extraJavaOptions=-Djava.io.tmpdir={0}".format(tmp_dir),
-        "--conf", "spark.executor.extraJavaOptions=-Djava.io.tmpdir={0}".format(tmp_dir),
+        "--conf", "spark.driver.extraJavaOptions='{0}'".format(java_options),
+        "--conf", "spark.executor.extraJavaOptions='{0}'".format(java_options),
         "pyspark-shell"
     ]
     env["PYSPARK_SUBMIT_ARGS"] = " ".join(spark_args)

sql/catalyst/pom.xml

@@ -148,7 +148,7 @@
         <groupId>org.scalatest</groupId>
         <artifactId>scalatest-maven-plugin</artifactId>
         <configuration>
-          <argLine>-ea -Xmx4g -Xss4m -XX:ReservedCodeCacheSize=${CodeCacheSize}</argLine>
+          <argLine>-ea -Xmx4g -Xss4m -XX:ReservedCodeCacheSize=${CodeCacheSize} -Dio.netty.tryReflectionSetAccessible=true</argLine>
         </configuration>
       </plugin>
       <plugin>

sql/core/pom.xml

@@ -177,7 +177,7 @@
         <groupId>org.scalatest</groupId>
         <artifactId>scalatest-maven-plugin</artifactId>
         <configuration>
-          <argLine>-ea -Xmx4g -Xss4m -XX:ReservedCodeCacheSize=${CodeCacheSize}</argLine>
+          <argLine>-ea -Xmx4g -Xss4m -XX:ReservedCodeCacheSize=${CodeCacheSize} -Dio.netty.tryReflectionSetAccessible=true</argLine>
         </configuration>
       </plugin>
       <plugin>

sql/hive/pom.xml

@@ -244,7 +244,7 @@
         <artifactId>scalatest-maven-plugin</artifactId>
         <configuration>
           <!-- Specially disable assertions since some Hive tests fail them -->
-          <argLine>-da -Xmx4g -XX:ReservedCodeCacheSize=${CodeCacheSize}</argLine>
+          <argLine>-da -Xmx4g -XX:ReservedCodeCacheSize=${CodeCacheSize} -Dio.netty.tryReflectionSetAccessible=true</argLine>
         </configuration>
       </plugin>
       <plugin>